Single during the holidays? Celebrate the joys of mistletoe!
Want to celebrate your single status this holiday season?
Embrace the mystery of mistletoe!
Every party should have mistletoe (and every party should have a cutie or two!).
Next time you walk into a holiday soiree, at atake a look around, see where the mistletoe is.
Also take a mental note of the cuties in the room. You want to smile, make eye contact, and flirt a little.
(Go ahead -- give yourself permission to start feeling fabulous again!)
If you happen to end up under the mistletoe with a certain cutie, give yourself permission to have a little smooch. If not, no worries. You're still celebrating your single self!
This holiday season, remember to just have fun! You're not on breakup lock down. You are single, you are fabulous, and it’s time to celebrate that this holiday season.
Report your successes and setbacks to me on my Facebook Fan Page.
Single during the holidays? Celebrate the joys of mistletoe!
Want to celebrate your single status this holiday season?
Embrace the mystery of mistletoe!
Every party should have mistletoe (and every party should have a cutie or two!).
Next time you walk into a holiday soiree, at atake a look around, see where the mistletoe is.
Also take a mental note of the cuties in the room. You want to smile, make eye contact, and flirt a little.
(Go ahead -- give yourself permission to start feeling fabulous again!)
If you happen to end up under the mistletoe with a certain cutie, give yourself permission to have a little smooch. If not, no worries. You're still celebrating your single self!
This holiday season, remember to just have fun! You're not on breakup lock down. You are single, you are fabulous, and it’s time to celebrate that this holiday season.
Report your successes and setbacks to me on my Facebook Fan Page.
Ready to Rejoice, Renew, Reflect?
As the holidays approach, are you approaching with sadness, despair, and disappointment over your last relationship?
If so, that's okay. But it's time for a reality check.
Instead of feeling sorry for yourself this holiday season, take the time to rejoice, renew, and reflect.
Ask yourself these questions:
- How did this year go?
- Where do I want to go next year?
- What do I want to celebrate that I learned this year, even if it was painful to learn it?
- What do I want to let go of that no longer serves me?
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- What do I want to accomplish in the new year that I need to change my behavior to do?
Spend some time this holiday season rejoicing, renewing and reflecting. As you do, you will see that you are not behind schedule with your life, you are actually right on time.
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Got questions? Email ask@lisasteadman.com.
How to be a Holiday Flirt!
I’ve got another great tip to celebrate your single self this holiday season...
I want you to become a flirting master!
Now, you don’t have to lose 20 pounds to rock your inner flirt.
You don’t have to get plastic surgery or get a new wardrobe either.
Flirting can happen anytime, anywhere, with anyone.
When you're at the grocery store and looking for produce, keep a look out for the cuties in your vicinity. Smile, make eye contact, and give him permission to approach.
By giving yourself permission to be open and to see who's in your environment, you can start flirting and having fun today. This is your chance to reclaim your fabulousness, and what better time then the holiday season!
To celebrate your sassy self, report your progress to me @ ask@lisasteadman.com.
How to Survive Holiday Parties Solo
With the holidays upon us, healing and moving on from a broken heart can be especially challenging.
You worry about being the only one minus a plus one at parties.
And sometimes you're freaked out because you don’t want to answer all of those mind numbing and selfish questions:
Where’s whats his name?
What happened?
What went wrong THIS time?
Sound familiar? I get it. I've been there myself.
Healing your heart during the holidays can feel painful, hurtful, and like there's something wrong with you.
Before you hide under the covers until New Year's, give yourself permission to pick and choose the parties you go to.
Now, don't become hermit -- choose the parties where there will be people who love you, support you, and nurture you. Gravitate towards situations where your friends and loved ones can help you celebrate your single status.
How to Survive Holiday Parties Solo
With the holidays upon us, healing and moving on from a broken heart can be especially challenging.
You worry about being the only one minus a plus one at parties.
And sometimes you're freaked out because you don’t want to answer all of those mind numbing and selfish questions:
Where’s whats his name?
What happened?
What went wrong THIS time?
Sound familiar? I get it. I've been there myself.
Healing your heart during the holidays can feel painful, hurtful, and like there's something wrong with you.
Before you hide under the covers until New Year's, give yourself permission to pick and choose the parties you go to.
Now, don't become hermit -- choose the parties where there will be people who love you, support you, and nurture you. Gravitate towards situations where your friends and loved ones can help you celebrate your single status.
Minus A Plus One This Holiday Season? Splurge on Yourself?
Here’s another great way to celebrate your single status this holiday season. With no expensive gifts to buy for your ex, you can splurge on yourself!
Maybe in the past you splurged a little to much on your ex during the holidays.
Maybe you stuffed his stocking, put a lot of presents under the tree, or bought the electronics you knew he would love.
Guess what? You don’t have to do that this holiday season. That is a HUGE savings on your budget.
And here’s what I want you to do with that cash. I want you to stash it away for something fun next year.
Maybe you put it away for that solo vacation you've been dreaming of, that home you want to buy, continuing your education or working with a coach. Or maybe you just want to do something fun and fabulous that in the past you’ve only dreamed of.
START DREAMING BIG!
Instead of overindulging this holiday season, be sure to celebrate your single self and set aside some cash for next year so you can have some fun and step into your fabulous future!
This Holiday Season, Become Your Own Arm Candy
Are you looking at the calendar and dreading the holiday social scene because you hate being minus a plus one at parties?
I get it.
But before you throw in the towel, hide under the covers, and mope until New Year's, I've got a better idea...
Become your own arm candy!
You heard me.
Celebrate your fab single self so that when you walk into your next holiday party, you’re not announcing your breakup by suddenly being a minus plus one. Instead, you're struting your stuff into that party like you own the room and are the most fabulous single woman there!
This may take some practice to cultivate if you are struggling with your self esteem these days.
Here are some practical tips to help you celebrate your fab single self :
- Get a new do’
- Get new makeup and a makeover
- Get a new wardrobe
Before each party, put on your fave fun girl music. Dance around the house. Put it on the car and rock out on your way to the party.
Tis the Season to…Celebrate Your Holiday Slump!
With the holidays here, I've been giving you tips to help celebrate your single status so you're not walking around feeling sad, depressed, and mopey.
But let's be real. Sometimes a girl's gotta feel sad, depressed and mopey.
Still go ahead – celebrate your slump this holiday season!
Give yourself permission to feel down, disappointed, and lost when the mood strikes you.
Give yourself permission to decline an invitation or two, If you're not feeling up to being social. Sit on your couch, put on your sweats, watch a sappy movie, listen to tear jerking music, write in your journal, and/or read a good book.
Let yourself feel that slump and grieve.
Let yourself get mad, depressed, and feel every emotion you need to feel! You can’t really move through a breakup until you’ve experienced the 5 stages of grief.
Tis the Season to…Pamper Yourself!
In the past, did you put a lot of time, energy, emotion, and money into loving, nurturing, and helping your ex feel better about himself?
And he's gone, are you feeling direction-less?
Now's the time to pour all of that great energy into yourself.
This holiday season, you have a conscious choice to make.
You can either focus on who’s missing and who you're not buying presents for...
Or you can take that energy and splurge on yourself!
Maybe you'll splurge on a spa day.
Maybe you'll take the money you were going to spend on your ex and put it in the bank, save it, and put it towards buying your first property in 2010.
Now's the time to treat yourself with excellent self love and self care throughout the holiday season.
Take time this holiday season to step back, love yourself, honor yourself, and pamper yourself.